Communicate calmly—without stirring up conflict.
OurFamilyWizard’s exclusive tool, ToneMeter, helps you spot language that could escalate conflict—so you can change it and sound civil.
NEW: ToneMeter AI makes communication easier by suggesting calm, neutral versions of emotional messages. What is ToneMeter AI?
What can you do with ToneMeter?
Reshape your communication. Communication sets the tone for your co-parenting relationship. ToneMeter points out when your message might sound confrontational. Then, ToneMeter AI will suggest a neutral alternative that still gets the point across.
Lower stress
ToneMeter helps you notice your own communication style—and then adjust the tone (if you want to) without changing the meaning. Regardless of what your co-parent does or says, reducing negativity in communication can lower your stress.
Using ToneMeter can help support you during a difficult, emotional time.
Minimize conflict
When one co-parent feels upset while communicating, the other parent often responds in the same way or even escalates the situation. Quickly, the conversation turns into an argument. With ToneMeter AI’s help, you can completely avoid that original trigger.
Keep the attention on taking care of the kids, not how you feel about each other.
Establish new patterns
Over time, you’ll get used to communicating with your co-parent civilly and productively. This new way of writing might become a habit. It will feel comfortable, because it’s so fast and easy with ToneMeter AI’s guidance.
You can escape the gloom, feel less helpless, and even set the overall tone for your communication.
Co-parenting communication is easier with ToneMeter AI
With ToneMeter AI, you can truly improve your communication. It offers suggestions for turning an emotional draft into a calm, clear message. When you keep your side of the street clean, then attorneys, mediators, therapists, and judges will notice that you’re communicating politely and productively—which can help in a custody disagreement.
With ToneMeter AI:
- Writing takes less emotional energy.
- Messages take less time.
- Communication feels less stressful.
- You're less likely to escalate conflict.
Learn more about ToneMeter.
Language in context
Tone analysis doesn’t just flag swear words—it analyzes your language in context to understand what impression it will make.
Private feedback
The tone analysis and rewrite suggestions are only for you. There’s no option to create a report for this feature. It’s entirely up to you if you incorporate the suggested rewrites into your message.
Always optional
If the tone analysis flags negative language, you don’t have to change it. If the message suggestions offer a rewrite and you don’t like it, you don’t have to use it—you can edit it or ignore it.
Only on OurFamilyWizard
OurFamilyWizard is the only co-parenting platform that has such an advanced tool for co-parenting communication. Our exclusive ToneMeter AI can change the co-parenting experience from the ground up by transforming how you communicate.